When to meet the kids when dating

Posted by / 18-Dec-2016 20:18

When to meet the kids when dating

Japanese guys are often too shy, scared or whatever and the majority of Western men is only interested in Japanese / Asian women.

As a result it is tough to find a date as a foreign woman here in Japan.

I personally know a few couples where either the man or the woman is foreign and I noticed quite a lot of differences in the kind of relationship they have.

Please note that the following is based on my personal experience and that not everybody out there is like that.

Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.

stay home, take care of the kids, always pour new alcohol into his empty glass etc.).

You’ll start to feel completely unattractive and ignored at times.

I noticed that those kind of relationships seem to work out better if they live in his home country and not in Japan.

Consequently they don’t see the need to study Japanese, because their wives will take care of it all.

One big problem seems to be the fact that in Japan the man earns the money, but the woman takes care of it!

Maybe they also think that a foreign woman might expect from their man that he’s telling his feelings straight out several times a day, something a shy Japanese man just won’t do.

Another problem is that many of the Japanese men seem to be afraid of their English ability and thus fail to approach a foreign woman.

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Most foreign men on the other hand, have no issues approaching a Japanese woman in English – or even in broken Japanese.

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